Project Dressing Well (on a budget!)

Goodbyes has two shops. The men's store and women's sale items are on side of the street, and the women's shop is across the street. 

Here's a new reality TV show idea, "Project Dressing Well." Give contestants a minimum amount of money and an event to attend and see who can pull together the best look for the least cost. If I were on that show, I'd hit a consignment shop first and top of my list would be Goodbyes on Sacramento Street in San Francisco.

The women's shop.

Last weekend, Matt and I observed Small Business Saturday by avoiding the Union Square holiday crush and instead we strolled beautiful, calm Sacramento Street. Our first stop: Goodbyes. They accepted most of the items I brought to consign, which included these boots. I hope they make someone very happy because they certainly didn't work for me. And what they didn't take, the woman was very sweet and apologetic, giving me the reason why for each. While I was consigning, Matt was perusing the men's shop and found two very nice shirts. One is a new, extremely soft fine-wale blue corduroy labeled "Bugatchi Uomo." These shirts normally sell for around $149, Matt paid $30. And he found a heavy linen teal green shirt for $13. I bought an elegant black satin Brooks Brothers blouse with french cuffs, like new, for $35. Goodbyes may not be the least expensive consignment shop, but if the item is in great condition, it's still a lot less expensive than retail. Consignment shopping can be a little hit and miss, but we usually find something. And the serendipity is fun, you never know what you'll find.

Four years ago, we were invited by our wonderful friends in Germany to their wedding. It was a two-week long celebration, culminating in a formal dinner and dance on the Rhine River. First thought: "What to wear?!!!" We headed straight to Goodbyes. Matt found this dashing Hugo Boss tuxedo and a YSL tuxedo shirt. And I found this elegant Ralph Lauren evening dress. The combined cost of both outfits? Around $300.

So, if you're a Bien Vestidista (or Vestidisto) and need some sparkle for a holiday party or simply want something new to wear and don't want to spend the big bucks, check out your local consignment shops. It's good for your look, your wallet and the environment.

New Schoos

A shoe with the hue of Tiffany's

In my previous posting about Simon Doonan and his new book, I was reminded about how important it is for a girl to have gay friends because they are invaluable for giving personal style consultations and advice. For example, a few days ago I came home from a long day of serving on a jury (another story, but you won't hear about it here, not much style in the courtroom). There was a package waiting for me. It was from my muy guapo friend Lorenzo.

Inside the package was this darling pair of Jimmy Choo sandles. Lorenzo saw them in a consignment shop while traveling in Texas. Knowing my size and style he bought them thinking they would fit his sister or me. Lorenzo thoughtfully dresses all the women in his life. He has found quite a few treasures for me over the years -- a wild sequined pair of snakeskin print pants, a dramatic black beaded macrame top, beautiful vintage scarves and jewelry. And now these elegant shoes.  How sweet is that? I love them and him.